I posted an earlier question about my boyfriend not carrying his weight in the house/bills etc. He’s not working presently and is only looking for a job he like or short term contracts like tree planting or skyiing instructor. He also started a small business but does not advertise or really reach out to get clients.
I’ve known him for ten years and did not know this side of him. He’s not financially stable and often promises things he ‘forgets’.
My respect is moving out with my libido and he can’t stop mopping. about our last week of no sex and little kissing. We still cuddle and stay close at night, but it seems like when i know he’s borrowing money for rent and groceries i’m just not that sex/happy. i’m also not seeing him fight to get a job when he knows i’m freaked out at his lack of responsibility is this normal? I love him increadibly and don’t want to lose him, i just can’t seem to want affection when I’m stressed because of him. we’ve talked about it calmly and he says he gets it, but then he moppes. what to do?

I’m moving into a studio apartment for a short time (9 months).
Is it worth it to paint?
What about designs? I love the design of Britney Murphy’s character’s apartment in “Uptown Girls” (obviously, I won’t be able to do anything that ornate, but I want something inspired by that). I like Indian-inspired design, really comfortable interiors that makes me feel sheltered and almost like I’m in my own little world, and crazy, unique design! Finally, I need to keep this SUPER cheap – I’m a typical college student (that is to say, dirt poor).
Any ideas? Pictures, websites, personal experience? ANYTHING would be helpful!
Thanks so much!