Having trouble wanting to have sex with boyfriend i love. Been living together for a year and it’s not 50/50?

short term house contract

I posted an earlier question about my boyfriend not carrying his weight in the house/bills etc.
He’s not working presently and is only looking for a job he like or short term contracts like tree planting or skyiing instructor. He also started a small business but does not advertise or really reach out to get clients.
I’ve known him for ten years and did not know this side of him. He’s not financially stable and often promises things he ‘forgets’.
My respect is moving out with my libido and he can’t stop mopping. about our last week of no sex and little kissing. We still cuddle and stay close at night, but it seems like when i know he’s borrowing money for rent and groceries i’m just not that sex/happy. i’m also not seeing him fight to get a job when he knows i’m freaked out at his lack of responsibility is this normal? I love him increadibly and don’t want to lose him, i just can’t seem to want affection when I’m stressed because of him. we’ve talked about it calmly and he says he gets it, but then he moppes. what to do?

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  • By Kendra, June 9, 2010 @ 8:22 pm

    I definitely see your point.. I think that I would feel the same way.
    Some people just have to be burned to make them move.
    Maybe he needs to realize what he is at the risk of losing if he continues his poor attitude? Tough love?

    Or.. maybe you could rent an inspirational movie, like The Secret.
    All about attitude.. If he’s going to sit around feeling sorry for himself, he’ll never get anywhere.

  • By editor@bcdisabilities.com, June 13, 2010 @ 3:49 am

    You' VE descubrió que el amor no es, de hecho, incondicional, que el respecto está ganado sobre una base en curso y que porque you' re más arriba en la cadena alimentaria que un alleycat común, usted requiere una comisión emocional de un socio basado en confianza como condición previa a la intimidad. Su confianza ha sido fracturada por este ' new' y tristemente un cuadro más auténtico del FB como oportunista algo rapaz con poco o nada de ambición a pesar de su posición privilegiada como hombre en un mundo patriarcal. Usted haven' t dijo tan aquí solamente it' s ninguna duda que se arrastra usted hacia fuera para ver cuánto he' el ll continúa aceptar/toma de usted y otras en vez de la salida allí conseguir sus los propios. He' s aceptó la invitación cultural extendida a él como hombre para seguir siendo bien niñez infantil del pasado, básicamente, y you' re no inclinado hacia sexo con los niños. It' s que simple. Una vez que se embalan sus bolsos y llega el taxi, licencia Billie Holliday que juega en la máquina tocadiscos – el oro bendice al niño Who' s consiguió sus los propios.

  • By hello, June 14, 2010 @ 4:16 am

    i dunno if i got this right but from what i understood i think every woman wants to feel taken care of and safe by their man and ur man is not makin u feel that its more like ur takin care of him .. women like men in power .. it is totallyyyyyy normal for u to feel this way .. i think give him time and see if anything changes if it doesnt and it still bothers u alot start lookin for a guy who can be all that and take care of u even tho i know it would be hard since u know this guy for a long time.. the funny thing is if u look at my question i kinda have the same issue with my bf

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