ADVICE AND ANSWERS. please read all before answering?

Hello, My name is Kay I am a female 20 years of age, I am trying to improve my life and experience what it takes to fully succeed at all my goals, hopes and dreams as well mature from a young lady into a women. I know this is a long questions and I would like to say THANK YOU for all whom answers my question(s).

PLEASE NOTE: Not to be rude but I only really want to hear from those who have succeeded in their life’s and have a good head on their shoulders, I rather hear from women/men of age since they are more experienced.

QUESTION 1) Careers, I have a dream to become a doctor and have had this dream since I was 9 years of age, I am going to take small step’s STEP-BY-STEP to obtain my degree as well maintain being their for my son (3) and boyfriend of over a year (33). I plan on first taking a nurse assistant class then climb the ropes over these next years of my life until my dreams come true.
Can you give me any tips and/or story’s from your experience that may be a asset to me along these next lets say 10 years as I live out my dream????????

QUESTION 2) I have been with my boyfriend (33) since November/19/2009, we been though alot together in the short period of shearing our lifes as one….. We lost a baby, had a house fire, been homeless, hustled, court cases, bought a home….. and so much more I MAEN EVERYTHING we had it hard, but we been though it all and stay strong and held each and another down. He takes good care of my son who is not even his (THATS A REAL MAN) and he doesnt even have to he chose to, and sadly to say his real dad aint even in the picture (DEADBEAT) well anyways I have never cheat dont live shear my hopes dreams wants goals fillings and everything with him, let go of all my male friends I dont party I do not drink/smoke I dont even go shopping with tha gals IM AT WORK SCHOOL or HOME lol and thats how I chose to be…… I love my man with all my heart.
WE DO LIVE TOGETHER Im the type of woman I cook clean please my family daily that is what brings me joy and happiness so my question is for the people who had long term relationships that lasted like 10-30- 40years HOW????????? I mean how do you do it and stay happy you now, after 60years and still in love happy. I mean give me your advice that keeps your relationship strong, what do you do? anything because this man is the best man I ever meet and Im a good woman, Yhwh blessed us to shear our lifes together and I never want this to end Im so happy and in-love.

QUESTION 3) Parenting, any tips comments remarks advice please give Im the mother of a 3year old boy, I lost a baby few month back and Im trying agian. I love children and would enjoy hearing what you have to say moms/dads so let me hear from you.

QUESTION 4) what is the best thing I can do for myself to become a better human being then what I already am??????

QUESTION 5) What made you successful and when I say successful I’m not only talking about money, money only plays a small factor, I mean successful at living a happy life. being healthy, going old, tips on being a good wife/mother, tips about jobs/careers, tips about owning your home, EVERYTHING THAT MAY HAPPEN IN MY LIFE I WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL. turn the bad in to good and the good into greatness. I want to be the best I can be as my spirit controls the body that makes of my appearance.

QUESTION 6) I just recently bought my house on land-contract, its my first time buying but I have rented before this is just on a higher level in a sort of way so any tips comments or story you would like to shear would be awesome.

THANKS EVERYBODY!!!! MAY YOU ALL HAVE A BLESSED SAFE LIFE.
In the question RELATIONSHIPS, I’ve made a spelling mistake lol I put don’t live I meant to put don’t LIE, sorry!

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